You Are Enough
May 14, 2009
A friend came over from the US, for some personal coaching with my wife and I. During the first few hours she went through a huge consciousness shift, in one of those death/rebirth energy-transformation moments.
Later, we discovered that the source of some of her present problems stemmed from a time in her childhood when she had withdrawn part of herself from the world. She then had to develop strategies for coping, that included a defensive/fight energetic, and over time that became her energetic approach to people – and life.
What we uncovered was that her current life connections were based on her strong self-reliance: the result of her feeling the need to stand up for herself. It was necessary to have self-reliance but it was also necessary for her to develop a new strategy for living, that could encourage deeper relationships to be grown.
The energy transformation piece that she did with us, really showed her that she no longer needed the defensive/fight strategy, because she was now able to stand unmoved by any seeming energetic chaos. She had become bigger than her old life.
We’ve seen this happen so many times – that people are energetically not present because
- they withdraw their lifeforce into themselves, believing that they need protection
- their energy/consciousness goes elsewhere, because of a wish to no longer be in the world
However, when there is a desire to be whole, present, and complete again, then energy becomes available to sustain and source the new desire for life. When that happens people realise that now they are enough; that there is a rich abundance of everything at their fingertips; and that a true love of life is assured.
Now our friend’s connections to herself (and to others) can come from an abundant, life enhancing, and energetically brilliant place.
It’s all in the connections that we allow to generate and grow, within us and to everything around us. When we feel a constant connectiveness then we don’t need to wonder if we are good enough or if what we do is enough – because the question doesn’t exist.